My Dating Secrets for Success

Welcome to My Dating Secrets for Success Blog! Dating Successfully takes a certain amount of knowledge and skill,and in this blog,I'm going to share with you the knowledge I have gained through my research and experience. I will share with you my 20 Rules,Prospecting Tips & Resources,Safety Tips and Dating Tips for the First Dates. I hope you are ready because you are about to learn how to date successfully to find exactly what you are looking for! Enjoy :)

Saturday, July 28, 2012

Dating Secrets For Success-Rule #19 of 20 (Overview)

MY Dating SecretS for Success RULE #19 OVERVIEW

How important is it to follow RULE # 19 to be able to date successfully? It’s crucial!

Let’s talk a little bit more about the important role RULE # 19 plays to be able to date successfully.

RULE #19 OF 20:

THE GOLDEN RULE

Treat people the way you want to be treated! But also, do not tolerate people that do not live by this rule!

I always have a little trouble with this one because I want to be appreciated and treated like a queen, so I treat people the way I want to be treated, but the problem is that most people don't get the message and tend to just take advantage.....

Have you had this happen to you? How long do you let it go on before you say something or before you end up walking away from people that do not get the message and just take advantage?

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Dating Secrets For Success-Rule #18 of 20 (Overview)

MY Dating SecretS for Success RULE #18 OVERVIEW

How important is it to follow RULE # 18 to be able to date successfully? It’s crucial!

Let’s talk a little bit more about the important role RULE # 18 plays to be able to date successfully.

RULE #18 OF 20:

FOLLOW THE RULES!

If you really want to succeed in finding a healthy stable meaningful relationship, do not go out on a date with anyone without following "ALL" of these rules in this particular order!

If you start dating someone without following "ALL" of the rules in order, you are setting yourself up for a lot of headaches, heartbreaks, drama and eventually for failure!

If you do not follow "ANY" of the instructions listed above in all the "MY DATING SECRETS FOR SUCCESS RULES" the odds of you finding a healthy stable meaningful relationship will drop from 97% down to 0.5%!

You need to understand that you have the power to control your own future, the choice to take control is ultimately yours, therefore, choose wisely!

Have you ever gone out on a date with a plan and then just decided to not follow through for some reason? What was the plan and why did you not follow through? What were the results?

Do you like what you read? If you do, share it using the options below, mention me in your posts, subscribe to my feed, link to me, or bookmark this site. Thanks J

Dating Secrets For Success-Rule #17 of 20 (Overview)

MY Dating SecretS for Success RULE #17 OVERVIEW

How important is it to follow RULE # 17 to be able to date successfully? It’s crucial!

Let’s talk a little bit more about the important role RULE # 17 plays to be able to date successfully.

RULE #17 OF 20:

THE 4 LETTER WORD

If you start to see any "RED FLAGS" at any point, learn to say the 4 letter word.....

N-E-X-T

Of course I don't mean for you to literally say this particular word to your prospects, what I mean is that if you start to see any "RED FLAGS", you need to move on! Trust me when I tell you that you will regret it sooner or later if you don't!

Have you ever seen a "RED FLAG" but yet chose to ignore it? What ended up happening?

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Dating Secrets For Success-Rule #16 of 20 (Overview)

MY Dating SecretS for Success RULE #16 OVERVIEW

How important is it to follow RULE # 16 to be able to date successfully? It’s crucial!

Let’s talk a little bit more about the important role RULE # 16 plays to be able to date successfully.

RULE #16 OF 20:

TIME

Do not waste your prospects' time and do not tolerate your prospects wasting yours.

Some people say that time is precious because time is money.

But I have a reality check for you, time is actually priceless!

For example, let's say that you wasted 5 years of your precious life with someone, it doesn't matter how rich you are, you can never go to a "Time Shop or Store" to buy those 5 years of your life back!

Our time here on this planet is very limited, therefore, don't waste it!

Have you ever had a previous date waste your time? What did you do and what did you say to them?

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Dating Secrets For Success-Rule #15 of 20 (Overview)

MY Dating SecretS for Success RULE #15 OVERVIEW

How important is it to follow RULE # 15 to be able to date successfully? It’s crucial!

Let’s talk a little bit more about the important role RULE # 15 plays to be able to date successfully.

RULE #15 OF 20:

SAY NO TO DRAMA

Do not give your prospects "Drama" or tolerate prospects that give it to you.

I think that life is just too short to be complicating it and wasting it dealing with "Drama." I think we need to focus on the important things in life, like being happy and at peace for example. If having contact with, or spending time with a particular individual doesn't cause you joy and make you smile when you think of them, I strongly recommend that you consider moving on!

What do you think? Is it worth to continue to date someone if most of the time what they give you is drama?

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Dating Secrets For Success-Rule #14 of 20 (Overview)

MY Dating SecretS for Success RULE #14 OVERVIEW

How important is it to follow RULE # 14 to be able to date successfully? It’s crucial!

Let’s talk a little bit more about the important role RULE # 14 plays to be able to date successfully.

RULE #14 OF 20:

ETHICS

RESPECT-Treat your prospects with respect, and do not tolerate prospects that do not treat you with the same courtesy.

HONESTY-Be honest with your prospects and do not tolerate prospects that are not honest with you.

Do not play with your prospects' feelings and do not tolerate prospects that play with yours.

This issue is very common with immature people, specially when they are hurt. Some people unfortunately tend to take out their heart breaks on someone else.

Have you ever had a past date disrespect you, pay with your feelings or mislead you? What ended up happening?

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Dating Secrets For Success-Rule #13 of 20 (Overview)

MY Dating SecretS for Success RULE #13 OVERVIEW

How important is it to follow RULE # 13 to be able to date successfully? It’s crucial!

Let’s talk a little bit more about the important role RULE # 13 plays to be able to date successfully.

RULE #13 OF 20:

COMMUNICATION

Communication is "Key" to the success of any relationship. Not just any type of communication however, the type of communication that is critical for a successful relationship is quality, efficient and constant communication.

Make sure that you always keep the lines of communication open to make sure that you and your prospects are on the same page and to make sure that there are no misunderstandings.

Many people have had huge issues due to misunderstandings, that's why having quality, efficient and constant communication is crucial.

Have you ever had a communication issue with any past dates before? What ended up happening?

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